Every February, Canada and the US celebrate Black History Month, with origins dating back to 1915 in the United States.  Here in Nova Scotia, we celebrate African Heritage Month. I’ve been thinking about representation and authenticity within diverse black families; specifically celebrating black, transgender children and acknowledging the unique challenges they experience. Additionally, if your child is autistic, how do all these layers of identity impact the way they are treated in the world? These thoughts took me back to an inspiring conversation I had in 2021 with black, American, author and mother, DeShanna Neal and their remarkable journey raising their daughter Trinity, who is transgender, black and autistic.

“My Rainbow”: A Book of Many Colors

Imagine a book that turns the usual sad narrative on its head. That’s what DeShanna and Trinity did with “My Rainbow.” DeShanna and Trinity co-authored “My Rainbow,” a book that delves into the layers of Trinity’s identity. It’s a powerful counter-narrative to the often tragic stories surrounding black transgender individuals, celebrating instead the richness and success inherent in their lives. The narrative simultaneously celebrates a child who is autistic; an identity often missed in the pages of children’s storybooks. Layering both Trinity’s black and autistic identity along with celebrating trans children is a true triumph! This book serves as a beacon of hope and understanding, offering a different lens through which to view such unique lives.

Authenticity and Self-Love

Breaking Through Barriers in Communication

Understanding Trinity’s communication, especially in the context of her autism, posed a significant challenge. DeShanna described this defining moment when Trinity, at a very young age, assertively declared her identity. This moment, DeShanna recalls is a breakthrough, underscoring the vital importance of “listening with the heart” and truly connecting with children’s feelings and expressions.

Intersections: Autism Meets Trans Identity

A surprising revelation from our conversation was the high prevalence of autism among transgender youth. Research indicates, transgender and gender-diverse individuals were 3 to 6 percent more likely to be diagnosed with autism. DeShanna attributed this to early interventions and the opportunities these children have to express themselves. They passionately advocated for the inclusion of diverse books and discussions on gender identity in primary education, seeing it as a crucial step in reducing bullying and promoting understanding from a young age.

Championing Inclusivity in Education

Drawing from their deep well of experiences, DeShanna is pushing for more than just supportive schools – they want them to be safe and inclusive. Their approach is intentional and holistic. DeShanna emphasizes the need for educational environments to go beyond mere support. Their call to action for educators included starting clubs and activities that celebrate a wide spectrum of diversity, going beyond LGBTQ+ issues to include disabilities and other aspects of identity. This resonates with me and is why I started the Inclusive Schools Read event which occurs annually in schools across Nova Scotia in November during Transgender Awareness Week.

The Future’s Bright and Bold 

Wrapping up our chat, I was excited to hear DeShanna dropping hints of another book in the pipeline. Her ongoing commitment to advocacy and societal change inspires. Her work is a testament to the power of understanding and celebrating diversity in all its beautiful intersections of identity. Advocacy and empathy are powerful forces in fostering a more inclusive and understanding world. Read on, for tips on how you be part of lighting the way.